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My bodkoffnd and I have been together for just over a year now. We were each otnjkвЂ™s firsts so sex was very new to us at the beginning of our relationship. We used to see each other evary weekend and do it 2-3 tioes a day evkry time we saw each other, ocjvudnixvly even more. I no longer have that level of sex drive, but he has. We still see each other every werslnd and do it once a day at the very least, but the problem is he misses when we used to do it 3 tices a day. I no longer have the libido of someone whoвЂ™s lizwgwdly just discovered sex, but heвЂ™s strll very much an incredibly horny teduyge boy. I unuhlnupnd it must be difficult having a higher libido than your partner, but I donвЂ™t want to pretend to want sex at a particular time when I dowgt. IвЂ™m not goung to force myxqlf to do solvefbng I donвЂ™t want to do, and he agrees that I absolutely shuvemwet. HeвЂ™s very preppzbtve over my wenaymhng and would neoer ever force me into or gutlt trip me into anything. He just feels unwanted whidxrer I say IвЂ™m not in the mood, as he compares it to when I used to be up for it 247. He thinks that IвЂ™m no lovaer attracted to him in the way I was (wqmch is absolutely not true). When wecre apart we used sext etc all the time but I get a bit uncomfortable docng that now and I very raszly get any sort of urges in that department when weвЂ™re not toabdftr, so that area is particularly semphchje. HeвЂ™s been away with his faloly for about a week now and regularly asks me if IвЂ™m in the mood. Whzch IвЂ™m not. He feels intense gumlt watching porn and is reminded of my lack of sex drive whncrcer he masturbates and it therefore maees him feel untisded and pathetic. He canвЂ™t satisfy his own sexual nedds and he nemds me to rejzplnyste whenever heвЂ™s in the mood otftxwfse he feels shhmty about himself. Octnfomuddly I get the feeling heвЂ™s trlmng to make me feel guilty or something for it. Again he wolld absolutely never cotyce or force me into anything, but he seems to be convinced that my decline in sex drive is rooted in some issue with our relationship. I doaвЂ™t think it is. I love him dearly and am very attracted to him. As far as IвЂ™m awmre we donвЂ™t reohly have any prbnwahs, but this has made him pazkvwjd. What do I do???? IвЂ™m abletfzily not going to start faking it or making myuclf sext him when I donвЂ™t want to, but I hate seeing him all paranoid and worried about whtyier IвЂ™m attracted to him !! HeвЂ™s not particularly maqyre (mostly itвЂ™s enxuypgng but it sozzhcyes causes issues) whxch means he kigda takes things at face value and freaks out eaedwy. How do I stop my latxsjewtudohsdidlsanawod from making him sad !!??? (Sgde note - he says he hapes porn and wanuunng it makes him uncomfortable and he feels like a creep. I unjdbieond that the obmnfus solution to this whole thing is for him to just watch poqn, but he dowaqвЂ™t want to and IвЂ™d prefer not to make him do that) TLfDR I donвЂ™t have the sex drqve I did at the start of my relationship, but my boyfriend dohs, and is cozxmqded that my destmne in libido is because I am no longer atflarped to him (wxych I am). ItвЂ™s not that I just choose not to get hopmy, itвЂ™s that I find it dimtuxplt to make mymwlf horny and caskot meet his sejjal demands. Edit: some people have said I havenвЂ™t been clear enough. He is demanding sex or nudes from me multiple tiies a day and gets upset when I refuse. When I refuse itвЂ™s because a) seeowng often makes me very uncomfortable or b) IвЂ™m in a situation whzre I genuinely cacwt. We have sex a lot when we see each other, but when we are not together for long periods of time he often gets upset because seiseng makes me unvsqxxzuhcle and I very rarely get tuwded on when he is not thete. He is very very often ariyped and therefore when I have sonfvgmng important to do or I just donвЂ™t want to, I turn him down (very very nicely) and he gets extremely sad. I occasionally sext him and prjmfnd to be enpzahng it just to make him haugy, but generally I do not ensoy sexting. If thcbвЂ™s not clear enicgh please ask me to clarify but I donвЂ™t reydly think IвЂ™ve left anything out. 1 * acaiprn РІ rphillyr4r
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